Sometimes I am so overwhelmed by the number of people I’ve met through a suicide loss that I shut down and don’t know how to pray for them at all. I knew maybe 3 or 4 people as of August. But now just 3 months later I’ve met dozens, dozens.
1 Thes 5: 16-18 “Always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.”
I am thankful for how You’ve been softening my heart, God. I am thankful for how You’ve shown me it’s far better to live by Your priorities than what mine were. So maybe that’s what you mean by being thankful in all circumstances. Your word doesn’t say to be thankful FOR the circumstance… but IN the circumstance. Yes, thank You for pointing that out to me! Yes!
vs 17… “Never stop praying.” I talk to You all day throughout the day. My problem in this season isn’t prayer in the broad sense of the word – it’s that I don’t shut up long enough to hear You. Praying is communication. Communication is talking and listening.
How do I pray for so many people? People I’ve met just a handful of times? People with unique circumstances, painful losses. I picture their faces. I picture them in the setting where I met them. Their tears. Their anger. Their guilt and confusion. The look of shock on their faces. There’s no making sense of life now.
Rom 8:26 “In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.”
Matt 5:4 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” God help them grieve. Bless them as they mourn. Comfort them. Help them do the “next thing” whatever that may be. Reach out to someone else who’s hurting, get out of bed, draw closer to You, take a breath. Whatever the “next thing” is. I pray these things for each person. Thank You for loving them far more than I ever could and for meeting them exactly where they are. Thank You for knowing exactly what they need, Father.
S who lost her son 10 years ago. C who lost her husband last month. R&N who lost their son 6 years ago. M&J who lost their son 4 years ago. D who lost her boyfriend last year. W who lost both her mom and her husband. M and M who both lost people close to them . M&G who lost their son. V who lost her sister. R who lost her son. V who lost her husband and for her two small children. J who lost her husband last year. The older couple who just lost their son. A who lost her friend 3 years ago . D&J who just lost their brother. L who just lost her husband. The entire M family – especially S, Dad and husband who lost their dear daughter and wife K just last weekend. J&R who lost J 6 years ago. B who I will meet tomorrow and her 2 kids – they just lost husband/dad 6 weeks ago. D&S and D’s family as they mourn the one year loss of D. K as she continues grieving for her Super N. MA for the loss of Ski. B for loss of his father 20+ years ago. Thank you for his servant heart towards helping others learn to live again. For J and the loss of her daughter just 30 months ago. C who lost her Mom years ago. MBSS blogger. And I pray for Fred, Robbie, David, Kris, my parents and Fred’s parents, Drey’s dear friends… Jeritt, Jayson, Austin, Robby, Max, Ryan, Alli, Morgan, Bethaney, Cary, Jenna, Kevin, Britney, Molly, Alec, Ben, Addie, Peiman, Ian, Josh, Grace, Gabe, Victoria and so many more. Thank You for knowing everyone I’ve neglected to pray specifically for on this chilly Tuesday morning, Father. Thank You for the crisp white snow that blankets my patio. Thank You for filling me up yet again with Your love, peace and compassion. Truly those who mourn are blessed and comforted.
a loving, comforting, grateful, post….my prayer life has been very much affected by my loss. I do not pray as I ought, I had the wrong expectations when I did pray. Now, I pray the Lord’s Prayer and only cries of desperation in my grief. I wish it was better. I feel like my conversations with God are everyday but like you I find that I am doing all the talking. I need to be still and listen. Thank you for the reminder.